Hi There! Welcome To Our Online Support Website…

We’re a small team who spend our lives helping men become more confident, charismatic, and better with women. We live by this mission, and if you’re a customer, we’re here to serve you.

We’re led by Christian Hudson, and you might know us by our brand name, The Social Man.

If you call or email us, you’ll be connecting with someone on our team in Texas or in the Philippines. We hire the best, friendliest, most caring, most responsive support staff we can find, so expect to be treated like royalty, starting now.


Our Products

You might know us better by one of the products you purchased from us…

Girlfriend Activation System

Christian Hudson’s step-by-step system to go from meeting a girl, to dating her, to a relationship.

The Desire System

Dr. David Tian’s system for making a woman feel the same emotions towards you – love, passion and lust – that you feel for her.


Nick Sparks’ masterpiece on confidence, charisma, and attraction.

Other Products

We have several other products, including The Ten Code, The Way of the Rake, HOW2TXTHER, Fearless Perspectives, Ignition, and Say Hello. Sometimes, these products are sold bundled together, or as part of a subscription.

Billing Questions

If you have a charge from our website on your credit card, then you’ve come to the right place.

What Is This Charge On My Card?

You, or someone in your family, purchased one of our products. If it was you, well… you probably remember doing so. If it wasn’t you, then please ask your son or husband (yes, this happens more often then you might think).

Why Are There Multiple Charges on My Card?

Did you buy any additional products from us? We sometimes give you the option of adding complimentary products to your purchases. If you see multiple charges on the same day, then you took us up on that.

But I See Charges From AFTER The Day I Purchased!

Ok, so it sounds like you opted into a subscription program. We try to be VERY clear about these – here’s an example of the checkout page. But hey, if you didn’t mean to join it, then no worries – we’ll get you taken care of – all you’ve gotta do is contact us at +1-888-405-1915!

What Is Your Refund Policy?

If you’re not happy with your purchase, you get your money back, simple as that. And we’ll honor that for a full year from the original date of your purchase. Simply put, we don’t want your money if you don’t find value in our stuff.

So how do I know what I actually bought from you?

You just need to look at the emails you received on the date of your original purchase. Search in your inbox for this exact phrase (yes, quote marks and all): “Items in Your Order”. That will pull up the invoices we sent your way. Or, just contact us and we’ll let you know!

Hmmm, I’m Gonna Just Call My Bank To Contest The Charges…

We can’t stop you, but we will contest the chargeback, and we usually win (we keep good records). Here’s a better idea: contact us instead at +1-888-405-1915. We’ll promptly refund you, and rather than deal with a banking rep, you’ll get to talk to one of the awesome, friendly people from our team.

But Seriously, Someone Stole My Card And Bought Your Stuff…

In that case, yes, contact your bank. But please contact us too. We take fraud very seriously – it hurts our business and it’s just not cool – and we work with our banking partners to help track down credit card thieves.

Access Your Stuff

Looking for The Social Man Login information? Or want to buy more?

The Social Man Login

All of our products are delivered in our secure membership website, which is located at community.thesocialman.com. Your login is the email address you used when you made a purchase. And your unique password was sent to you in an email called “The Social Man Login Information.”

Ordering DVDs

At present time, we don’t offer any of our products on DVD or Blu-Ray. We’re working on that, but for now, they’re all in the cloud. When we begin to print physical copies, we will notify our customers by email.

I Want to Buy Another Program From You Guys…

Awesome. We get excited when guys get excited about learning more from us. For now, just contact the friendly folks on our help desk and they’ll be happy to help you make your purchase.

I Want to Get To The Next Level Fast. Tell Me About Coaching!

Great. We’ve been coaching since 2005, and we don’t mess around – if you work with us, you can expect amazing results. Just head on over to our main website, learn how we structure our programs, and fill out an application for a coaching call.

I Need Some Advice On A Specific Girl/Dating Situation…

No problem, that’s why we built our private members community – so you can ask questions and get answers from Christian, David, Nick and a whole bunch of other guys who are eager to help you out. Just log into the members community and post your questions there!

Submit A Support Ticket

Still need to get in touch with a question, billing issue, or request? No problem – just send us a message, or give us a ring, and we’ll get back to you promptly.